Idealization and devaluation

We see a lot of idealization and devaluation in these families.

Mm-hmm.

Ideal-

Is it safe to say then part of the instability or the unsafety is that there's no cohesive sense of self or others, and that's why you see this sort of fragmented relationship where one moment things could be really, really, really good and amazing, and there's an intense sense of togetherness, and the next moment, as I just described, all of that falls apart?

Absolutely.

We see a lot of idealization and devaluation in these families.

Mm.

Mm.