How to Build a Sex Room

So, so we came to this kind of by accident.

So how we found out about each other in the kink space was because of a TV show called How to Build a Sex Room.

[laughs] Yeah.

I'm sure you've probably heard of it-

My girlfriend at the time and I were watching the show.

Uh, Stuart, or Griff and, sorry, Griff and his husband were watching the show.

Obviously we didn't know that each other was watching the show, and one day for shock value, uh, Griff sent me a text message that said, "Hey, we're watching this TV show, How to Build a Sex Room.

It's kinda fun." And I responded with, "Oh my God, we're watching the same show."

Very different.

When I was doing How to Build a Sex Room and I was working with Lisa, the single female, she was like, but I don't get pleasure just from clitoral stimulation.

I get pleasure from that entire area, which is why I bought her the sort of like the starfish, which gives vibrations all around the area of the vulva and the pubic bone as well, the pubis.

And you know that probably better than anyone because you have a unique positioning of, yes, I talk to people about their sex life, but you literally go into their homes and not only have intimate discussions, but you get to see how they live their lives, how they want to explore pleasure in a sanctuary of their own.

I love that you're saying it because I think that it's not just the space, but it's also kink in general.

Everyone thinks kink and they think of all of those things.

And I blame the media, right? And that's what I loved about how to build a sex room because it flipped that narrative on its head.

And it was like, no, it can be in blush pinks and light blues.