How does that work? I'm saying like if they need you, they're going to trial.

Yeah.

So all my cases, I told the judges and they were like super understanding and telling you that Nassau County, also Queens, I work in Queens too.

Really it's Nassau and Queens, mostly Nassau, but everyone's very understanding.

They know you.

So they're like, okay, we're praying for you.

It was great.

feeling like they're failing for their kids, you know, they're failing for their marriage, for their community, just feeling a failure, like overall, what would you tell them?

Yeah.

And like, there was like this story I heard growing up, um, from my parents' honeymoon that like they were in like Paris.

They were s- in somewhere like very fancy, like some like very luxurious Parisian hotel where this server was going around with like a Viennese cart for desserts and was like, "Okay, would you like chocolate mousse?" And he had like this huge bowl of chocolate mousse, and I guess the intention was he would like give you a scoop of the chocolate.

And my dad just took the, the huge chocolate mousse bowl off the cart and just ate the whole thing in like one sitting, and that was like a story growing up.

So it was almost like ingrained in me, like, oh, my dad eats and it's, it's like excess and too much.

I don't think I thought in terms of fat.

I just thought in terms of like, that's embarrassing.

Positive way or a negative way?