Ghosting

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Se llamaaa Ghosting.

Ghosting en inglés.

Ghosting cuando alguien se desaparece, como tú estás hablando con alguien y para de-- cuelga la llamada, la saca a un, a un date a comer y después-

Se desaparece.

Se desaparece.

Entonces, él le puso el título en inglés al tema, Ghosting.

Ghosting.

You know, you walk into a bar, you can look at the room, see people talking, get a sense of kind of who's getting the attention, whose outfit looks good, you know, who's funny and so on, how you are compared to them.

You've turned off in fancy dress and realize you've made a horrible mistake where you can kind of make all of those judgments just by using these kind of your eyes the social cues available to you but on one of these swipe apps you know an app like tinder for example you see one person at a time and you have to make a decision there or then do i engage with or not right yeah you know it's like going to a pub but you're not allowed to just walk into the pub and talk to people you're presented with every one of the people in the pub one at a time at the door and without any context you have to be like is this person who's just appeared to me in the doorway somebody I want to talk to or not and you're like well how do I make that decision and it incentivises kind of behaviours which kind of makes sense so you might think well I've no idea so I'm going to kind of err on the side of caution sort of say well they're probably a good person I'd like to talk to and so on so yeah yeah yeah then you end up with like lots of people involved and then you've got to kind of figure out how to kind of sift through those and ghosting can seem like an attractive option you know like particularly if other people aren't really talking very much to you or if they're being a bit kind of shitty or whatever like Ghosting can seem like a kind of like part of the deal.

And what happens with all of this stuff, really, these kind of the way that these decision situations are set up, the lack of context, the lack of other information, the kind of sort of actions that seem more salient, more rational.

We all just end up treating each other worse than we would like.

box and you're not sure you're going to get that letter.

Ghosting is really, really normal out here.

And I think it's gotten more so.

And so I think people don't don't get it.

I can't believe

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