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Gary Waters

Gary Waters

American basketball coach

Sep 17, 2026

0:00
So if my clients weren't getting results, then I'd be like sad.
0:03
But if they were getting great results, then I'd be like high and happy, right? But there's still me there, meaning that, you know, my worth is dependent on an external circumstance, right? And that is the opportunity to really explore quite gently, which is whether that's true.
0:21
So as you start to discover actually self-worth hasn't gone anywhere since the moment we were born, right? Then what starts to happen is you start to garner a new relationship to clients, right? So for me, I like to just inquire, you know, Is it clean what I'm doing, right? Because for me, I contribute now from having done this for a while and got rid of a lot more of my old identity, right? I contribute from a space where I share what I know and if it lands, great.
0:58
But their progress is a byproduct of their learning, not of my coaching.
1:04
So I stay open to contribution.
1:06
I'm always up leveling.
3:04
So it's almost our view of ourselves is also having an impact on our clients is what I'm hearing.
3:11
Yeah.

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