Family Process

And I've seen couples in my office assume that the quiet one is like the regulated one, the calm, the thoughtful, or even like the rational one.

And there is a study this year in Family Process that found avoidantly attached men reported more flooding during conflict when their partner was high in attachment anxiety than when their partner was low in attachment anxiety.

So the reach, the behavior of the attachment anxiety as that is expressed That raises kind of like the water level for the person who looks like they're standing on dry ground.

Now we're not blaming that partner.