couple of months into the trip, well, not even

a few weeks into the trip, really, there were some things that really shifted back home.

And I don't need to get into deep details about it, but they were, they were events that were significant enough that it caused us to just pause and, and, Initially, the trip was to play and explore and connect and to rest.

But then it really became a question of what do we value and what does it look like for us to have an opportunity to really think deeply about this next season of life? And what do we want to orient ourselves around? And so my wife and I sat down and we really clearly articulated our values and listed them out and weighted them and ranked them.

And then we gave ourselves permission just to imagine what it might look like to actually live in a different country.

And we certainly gave ourselves permission to experience that with the places that we were.

And most of the places we traveled, we were there for three or four weeks.

So do you want to talk a little bit about actually how you help in a marriage to be able to help them to communicate and understand themselves?