Right.

But then you start learning using yourself as an instrument.

As an instrument, you should pay attention to what's going on for me in that moment.

What do I sense? And when I uncovered this tool for myself and added it to my practice, I saw how beautifully it changed our results with clients.

When we can't have in the distance, we are part of it.

which we are this system.

So now it's not just me observing my client working the session and struggling with something, questioning something, trying to find something, and me asking good questions.

Mm-hmm.