Doubt

Everybody.

Doubt and unbelief.

Because doubt and unbelief are in your soul.

Your soul is what you think, what you feel, and what you want.

And that is what we struggle because we don't feel it.

But that's not a feeling thing.

Doubt and unbelief you feel because they are in your emotions.

It's your soul talking.

Listen carefully.

To give someone the benefit of the doubt.

So one more time, to give someone the benefit, B-E-N-E-F-I-T, of the doubt, D-O-U-B-T.

The B is silent.

There's no B sound.

Don't say doubt, just say doubt.

To give someone the benefit of the doubt.

Now, this is a long expression, and I'm going to give you a really easy definition.

But my dad was like, no, I'm going to make it happen.

Your title, Never in Doubt, I guess it would be a multi-part question is, but that really, just the title, you gave me the book at the signing and that really took me aback because I'm like, yeah, that's kind of in my DNA that I'm going to make it work.

How did you land on that title?

Yeah, so I'll tell you the story of the title, but before I go there, a couple of things that I've learned in life.

of your desire unfolding and becoming is believable to you, if your expectation is that it is happening, then you're not introducing resistance.

And if you're not introducing resistance, that's what doubt is.

Doubt is resistance to your desire.

So if you don't believe your desire, you're introducing resistance and then your desire sucks.

It just doesn't feel good.

Every day you're tuned into a particular station.

Perhaps your station is called Self-Doubt AM and all day long it's broadcasting messages like, I'm not good enough.

I could never do that.

I'm too old.

And today we're going to be talking about how self-doubt overachievement, how many times have we heard that? Perfectionism and people-pleasing can become survival identities and what it takes to build self-trust beyond them.

Before we get into it, let me tell you about Carlene Marie.

She is a master mind power coach, keynote speaker, and author of Enough Already, Release Self-Doubt, Reclaim Your Worth, and Remember Your Light.

She works with leaders, high performers, and women at defining crossroads who may appear confident and successful on the outside while privately struggling with self-doubt, overthinking, people-pleasing, and the exhaustion of never feeling quite enough.

She blends neuroscience, nervous system regulation, mindfulness and spirit and helps women identify and interrupt the unconscious beliefs driving those patterns.