I deserve it.

[laughs] Everyone's like, "Great.

Glad I drove from Brisbane." [laughs] Um, or flew from Melbourne.

Anyone from outside of Australia, by the way? Where did you come from? New Zealand.

I'm from the UK.

UK.

Just for the show.

... for people who are going through it.

Tell us the story.

Yeah, so for those who don't know, I was working in corporate from 18 to 30, and I'm now 23, so you know how to work that one out.

According to Grindr, I'm 23.

So I'm glad the crowd knows what that is.

But I'm nearly 39 now, actually.

Well, no, I am 39.

Nearly 40.

And there you go.

[laughs]

Um...

You know, my grandmother for me was like a second mum, and I, I think about her every single day.

Like, just because I understand that there's somewhere else doesn't mean that, you know...

So, you know, every emotion we feel is still valid, and it's okay to miss someone and to, you know, even be grieving over it, of course, because that still teaches us.

But what I've learnt over the last 15 years, it's, it is sort of like a version of what we would imagine heaven to be.

Like, it's very peaceful, it's very warm.

[laughs]