Coitus reservatus

That's what porn is really pulling out of them.

But then I think they're getting confused too with some of the messaging around semen retention.

I don't know if you have any thoughts about that, you know, because obviously you can't then swing to repression if you're not also doing the inner work like you shared.

And what could be sort of like the integrated balance?

I'm laughing because I fell into the same trap myself.

I did the whole... what, 10, 15 years ago, this whole semen retention, Mantak Chia, sexual Qigong, and the $6 million point down there, and just trying to achieve orgasm with that ejaculating, and it became a, excuse my French, fucking head trip that got me more into my head, number one.

Number two, there was no intimacy, like, you know, because I was more... concerned about my performance so to speak you know and number three um it doesn't it's just mechanically technically that didn't resolve anything right and it led more into suppression which can have detrimental effects right

yeah