Yeah

... and shocking.But I think the one that I, that really set the standard for me was the death of my mother.

So that was the second parent within 10 months.

Um, and you know, I, I g- maybe I'm, you know, conflating the two of them, but with the death of my father, my mother was ill, and she had me and my brother who's much older, and it really was just about pushing forward through her illness and where are we going to live and how are we going to survive.

But when 10 months later she died-

Yeah

...

but it was like another planet.