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Sep 11, 2026

Amy HoffmannHOST
40:10
what he refers to as courageous love.
Tommy BordenHOST
40:13
Yeah, and that's basically what Bell Hooks, that was her definition of love.
Tommy BordenHOST
40:17
Wasn't it Bell Hooks who said that love is, you know, true love is... feeling that you want to help that other person become the best
Amy HoffmannHOST
40:33
version of them
Tommy BordenHOST
40:33
self-actualized self-actualized version of themselves that you are want to be a part of that
Tommy BordenHOST
40:42
yeah
Amy HoffmannHOST
40:43
um So I put that I think that this is the definition of love.
Amy HoffmannHOST
40:48
So I must have been kind of channeling bell hooks there.
Hard to Love

Hard to Love

The Art of Staying

Sep 11 · 2 Mentions

Myesha T. HillHOST
0:12
And we are on our episode two called The Art of Staying.
Myesha T. HillHOST
0:16
And this week, the question that we're sitting with is when it gets hard, what makes us stay instead of leaving, right? Because this is something that, you know, when you've had a collective community for years, and you witness people leave, and then you witness people ghost, it's been like a tricky situation, right? And it reminds me of this quote we just found by Bell Hooks, that relationships are treated like Dixie cups.
Myesha T. HillHOST
0:47
They are the same.
Myesha T. HillHOST
0:47
They are disposable.
Myesha T. HillHOST
1:15
We're not saying stay in relational abusive situations.
Myesha T. HillHOST
1:18
We're not saying stay in anything that violates your capacity for love or violates your human experience.
Myesha T. HillHOST
1:24
But like we are saying, like here in the West, we treat each other to bell hooks point like a Dixie cup.
Myesha T. HillHOST
1:31
And we are really good at throwing each other away uncomfortable.
Brian CartwrightHOST
15:25
And then there's usually stuff which will, like...
Brian CartwrightHOST
15:27
Another good example is, like, how much stuff is, like... just very classic, like, early 70s, second wave, you know, feminism, some, like, pre-Bell Hooks-ass bullshit, which just, like, reads as, like, very, like, martial and angry, because martial and angry is what plays well on the internet.
Brian CartwrightHOST
15:57
And, like, it's...
Brian CartwrightHOST
16:00
It's... it's amazing how often you'll talk to a person that are 30 and you'll be like, Hey, let's talk about the, um, the housing crisis for like unhoused people.
Erica Cruz GuevaraHOST
12:49
Is it? Yeah.
Victoria DuranGUEST
12:50
It illuminates how patriarchy functions and how we're all participants, as Bell Hooks says.
Victoria DuranGUEST
13:00
I look to this as a reminder of, okay, do we have our heroes? Do we have our...
Victoria DuranGUEST
13:07
Like, situating the stories around a individual person, because this, a sustaining movement is focused on the movement.
Richard J. PowellGUEST
19:52
I have viridian talking or writing Jake and telling Jake that of all places, "Tiffany is, has, has co-opted me, [chuckles] viridian.
Richard J. PowellGUEST
20:04
And how dare it co-opt me when you know better than anybody else how central I am to not just your work, but to a kind of modernism." And I, and I let viridian park on The Lovers because it is such a, a-- Well, as Bell Hooks says, it's, it's, it's, it's an extraordinary painting that stands alone, um, or at least amongst his works as really one of his finest, 'cause it not just deals with love, it deals with the precarity of love.
Richard J. PowellGUEST
20:34
And also when I see that viridian couch, I think of, of oceans, I think of, of choppy waters, I think of, of, of, of m-modern men and women listening to, to Billie Holiday in that time period.
Richard J. PowellGUEST
20:51
So, so it was just, it was a chance to really have fun and to, to really let the color assert itself in my writing.
Theresa PlaisanceHOST
51:40
Nice
Syd ColsonHOST
51:41
... [laughs] she mentioned this book, All About Love by Bell Hooks, and she was just saying several things throughout the concert about love, not just romantic love, but platonic, like, what love should look like in your life.
Syd ColsonHOST
51:57
And when you're in a relationship, the person is supposed to be helping you be the best version of yourself.
Syd ColsonHOST
52:03
If you find that that's not happening, remove yourself.
Vincent MousseauGUEST
26:24
I started a book club where we're reading a whole bunch of black feminist and indigenous feminist literature and exploring these themes about regulating our emotions and showing up in movement spaces.
Vincent MousseauGUEST
26:36
We're reading All About Love by Bell Hooks to really understand our relationship to our emotional selves.
Vincent MousseauGUEST
26:43
There's a lot of strength in this kind of thing.
Vincent MousseauGUEST
26:44
And I just think that we got to do it.
Liz PlankHOST
23:41
You're still being confined from being connected.
Liz PlankHOST
23:44
There's still, as Bell Hooks has said in The Will to Change and many other texts, that they are stripped of their humanity.
Liz PlankHOST
23:53
And that's why, again, they're boring on reality shows.
Liz PlankHOST
23:56
Because there's like there's something there's like a humanity that's been stripped away.
Liz PlankHOST
26:15
The sort of people pleasing programming that so many women, you know, I think have to unlearn.
Liz PlankHOST
26:20
I'm still unlearning it.
Liz PlankHOST
26:21
Bell Hooks has a great quote.
Liz PlankHOST
26:23
She says, patriarchy trains men to expect care and trains women to feel guilty for withholding it.
Kate HergottHOST
38:06
Yeah.
Kate HergottHOST
38:08
It was also reminding me that Bell Hooks, I think it's in her book, All About Love.
Kate HergottHOST
38:13
She talks about how some female relationships are, even if they aren't sexual, it's almost that they are romantic in how deeply women can love each other and understand each other.
Kate HergottHOST
38:27
And that's, I think she talks about a couple of the things.
Beth YirgaGUEST
24:14
For my lived experience as a first generation college student, right, with Black immigrant parents, community is what allowed us to navigate the darkness and unknown of being, of realizing what citizenship in our identities look like in America, right? And through that, I sought literature and writing that helped me identify that experience.
Beth YirgaGUEST
24:39
And through like Bell Hooks and Charlene Carruthers and similar texts, I realized that this is a longstanding tradition of community through darkness, through new eras, through new times or in the creation and the birth of new times.
Beth YirgaGUEST
24:57
And so just kind of touching upon those traditions of Black queer feminist kind of traditions or Indigenous traditions of how building community together helped us bring our lights together.
Beth YirgaGUEST
25:11
to move forward in dark times is how I equate it in this AI era of the unknown, right? In education, going to a path of unknown with technology that we're building.

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