B&Q

And this part of us can find a balance between getting our needs met and in direct ways and not being ashamed of that, being able to be confident or empowered in our vulnerabilities.

um and also to have the wisdom to know who we can trust and who we can't you know that we don't want to share our vulnerable self with everyone to know that actually look this person's um you know I use this metaphor in the book of um Bunnings doesn't sell bread so for example you know Bunnings is a good hardware store it sells good saws and hammers and you know garden furniture sorry, Bunnings, when I say Bunnings, that's the Australian, B&Q, I should be saying.

So, okay.

Yeah, they don't sell, they sell garden furniture and hammers and saws and plants and whatever.

So we can go to B&Q, if we're looking for bread, we might find some crumbs on the floor.

If we can't, you know, but often many of our clients keep going back to B&Q hoping that they'll start selling bread, you know, and that, you know, But all they find is crumbs on the floor.

We want to help our clients from their healthy, wise self to start forming relationships with people who are emotionally aware and emotionally switched on, who can meet some of their emotional needs and in a mutually beneficial way.

satisfying way but also to know you know that when sometimes some people are just not able to just not emotionally switched on we might have be able to get those you know other needs met we might be able to also be in a relationship with those person those people but not expect to get to get our emotional needs met to give up on getting our emotional needs met from people who are not capable of And not take that personally, not recognize that that's about them, that's not about us.

I don't do no project stuff.

I literally, I'm a manager at B&Q.

You work as what?

I'm a manager at B&Q, the retail store.

Oh.

And how long have you been

Just over two years, I think.

Okay.

it's not me.

I'm preparing myself for when I've got to get the job in the B&Q as

well.

I'm ready to die.

apron, me and you.

Oh, that'd be all right.

B&Q, yeah, I'd be all right with that.

We

championing peat-free and you've got peat-free plants there.

B&Q always has done.

Exactly.

And also there's a peat-free campaign at the moment, which is also trying to encourage more supermarkets to focus on growing their produce in peat-free.

There we go.

Yeah, B&Q for me, John.

And the others.

Yes, I like Wix and I like Screwfix.