However you want to get this conversation started, let's go.

Okay.

So my own, my passion for helping parents comes from my own healing journey because I came from dysfunction I came from abuse I was sexually abused by my dad when I was a kid and I I had to heal from that like when you're a child when you're brought up in a very controlling environment You don't know actually what is wrong or what is right.

You have a gut instinct it's wrong, but you're confused because it's your dad, right? It's your parents.

And so I didn't learn until I was older what actually was healthy and what wasn't healthy in my childhood.

I knew that it felt wrong, but I didn't know what to do about it.

So honestly, this is where God comes in.

How can we start to break the patterns, but at the root?

How are you guiding your children, or share tips to how parents can guide their children, um, trying to create families or relationships in today's world?

Okay.

I have a very different opinion.

Uh, I said before that I grew up with controlling parents, and so I am not a controlling parent.

I actually walk the talk with my kids.

Uh, I realize that I'm raising an adult.

So controlling actually doesn't help them develop, uh, the discipline, the, the, the, um, practice with stopping themselves and doing something productive, right? It...

What advice, tips, recommendations do you wanna give to them in general for those who wanna start families?