So I'd love for you to just share a little bit about your story and how you got to where you're at today.

Yeah, I'd love to.

I always feel a little bit overwhelmed when I'm asked where to start because there's so much to unload.

So I try and do it with as much clarity as I can.

So I am a mama to seven home birth babies.

And really, I loved being a mother the minute The minute I became one, I mean, maybe before that, right? Because that desire is there for this child.

So for a really long time, I did what all of the moms were doing.

And do they also maybe teach each other as well?

Yeah.

She is worthy of the most beautiful things, and there is no realistic in my life.

I don't believe it.

I don't...

I believe in the most unrealistic life, because at this point I'm proof in living that.

Um, so when I came here, when I finally arrived in Hawaii, you know, it was kinda funny.

I, I just wanna kinda mention this, 'cause I know you'll appreciate it.

Chills.

great sense of relief uh knowing that they're out in the world and doing fine and i don't have to you know do 24 7 awareness of them

yeah i agree 100 with everything you said i think that women are very frustrated because it feels like they just aren't able to take care of themselves but what i have to say to that is not taking care of yourself is very selfish.

It's selfish to yourself and it's selfish to the people around you because you are worthy of that.

You deserve that.

all that you need, whether that, you know, it's emotionally, spiritually, physically, whatever it is.

And so like I have boundaries, right? Like I love my children.

Everything I do is for them.

I had things I liked and that I wanted to pursue, but it certainly wasn't some of the conventional ways that I was encouraged to go