Alison A. Armstrong
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Sep 13, 2026
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
That majority of people are just doing their best, trying their best, and often we misinterpret and misunderstand because of our perspective, our background, our past experiences.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
What Alison Armstrong says that we think that you're hairy women just misbehaving.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
And you think we're men with less hair and we're just scattered and confusing.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
So if you even just gave that as a little bit of a basis about why do you do that? And I don't understand.
Katie WeatherupHOST
And it's a very very funny and very revealing of just kind of the deeper human nature beneath some of these things.
Katie WeatherupHOST
So I enjoyed the podcast a lot, but I was musing on the fact that when someone is willing to heal and grow, and by willing, I really like Alison Armstrong's idea of their will being completely behind it, their will is engaged, they're fully committed to this thing.
Katie WeatherupHOST
So it's not the sort of passive willing that we use sometimes in popular culture, like, yeah, sure, I'm open to healing, that'd be cool, but more of a my will and my determination and my commitment are really behind this, that even with a perspective and a book that is in a lot of ways, you know, genuinely problematic, there's still this huge opportunity for the determined person to harvest really good stuff out of it and use it to move their life forward.
Katie WeatherupHOST
And I think that's really interesting because a lot of times we feel like we need the right practice or we need the right coaching or some sort of thing, like if there's going to be a fitness program, trying to find the right fitness program or the right diet or the right counselor.
John WinelandGUEST
So they haven't been safe, yeah.
John WinelandGUEST
And so the fear, the great fear that they're fighting against is being safe in the world, right? Alison Armstrong talks about, yeah, yeah, yeah.
John WinelandGUEST
She talks about this.
John WinelandGUEST
Like, women, raise your hand if you felt unsafe walking through a parking lot at night.
Adele MarchantHOST
Like it is one of the few books I've ever read that I was like, I will forever be changed from having read this book, truly.
Adele MarchantHOST
And another one of those is The Queen's Code by Alison A. Armstrong.
Adele MarchantHOST
If I could give you two book recommendations, those are like two of the best, but they are like change your brain chemistry kind of books.
Adele MarchantHOST
But yeah, having an awareness of your thoughts and recognizing your thoughts are not real, right? So what my brain is throwing up at me is not necessarily true, right? So I can hear those thoughts and not act on them not speak from them not believe them and that creates a distance between me myself my action my beliefs and the thoughts I'm hearing in my brain okay and the other thing that if I look back on between recognizing that I will be fine no matter what and recognizing that this is all emotional avoidance of uncertainty the other thing that really healed my anxious attachment and I will hammer this home to the day I die is I got a life, okay? I got a bigger life than this guy that was making me anxious, okay? I got bigger dopamine hits.
Anya ShakhHOST
And it's incredible.
Anya ShakhHOST
Men are so good at helping boys live out their hero right like bring the hero out of them this is actually something that i think women can do very well as well i just think women there needs to be like a fundamental love for the masculine fundamental like oh wow like i i respect the masculine way of life way of doing things way of thinking and you know um Alison Armstrong, in her content, she always talks about how, you know, every little boy is a little man in some ways, too.
Anya ShakhHOST
And he wants to be a hero.
Anya ShakhHOST
One of the things he hates most more than anything is boredom.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
And it's two people forming a mutual agreement for their mutual benefit.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
And one of the things I will quote our lovely Alison Armstrong as she says, a part of that word is part.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
And what is your part? What's your part in creating a successful partnership? And what's their part? Because it doesn't just happen.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
It really does take some thought and some care and Communicating with yourself well and communicating with the other person.
Anya ShakhGUEST
Because if you're comparing a man to a human female, then everything he does is bad and wrong if you're comparing it to her.
Anya ShakhGUEST
So Alison Armstrong has a lot of stuff about this.
Anya ShakhGUEST
She's just really great about that.
Anya ShakhGUEST
So it's like, for example, like, I was reading this something about like in 1932, the two most desired the two most desired traits for men were ambition, ambition and industriousness.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
And it's interesting, I've been across the table from a few men who I really would say were bragging.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
And most of the time, especially when I started learning from Miss Alison Armstrong, I learned they were just trying to say, is this the kind of strength you're looking for? Would you like me because of this? And it truly was just the facts.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
It was just they were reporting the news about them.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
They really weren't feeling insecure.
RalphHOST
For a woman who becomes a new mother, there is nothing more preoccupying her brain than got a new little human to take care of.
RalphHOST
I once heard the very popular content creator and author Alison Armstrong say that women tend to pay attention to what is the loudest in the relationship.
RalphHOST
And when you're a mother, the loudest thing, so to speak, in your head is the needs of this little child.
RalphHOST
And often the men at that point go like, what about husband over here? And boy, if you want to get women irate, be a man to point out, like, I kind of feel forgotten after the kid came into the picture.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
So connection, that feeling of connected is really important to us.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
And one of the things that's come up recently is, is this me or not me? When I'm talking to you and listening to you, do you do things that I like or don't like? And it was interesting because Alison Armstrong brought that up recently.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
She says, a sneeze is a not me.
Christine BaumgartnerHOST
You need to get it out of your body.
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